There’s a common thread among some of the more renowned and iconic bands in rock history — the Beatles, U2 and REM, to name a few. They were friends before they were musicians. And most of them weren’t very talented, musically, at the beginning of their foray into band-hood. They had a chemistry that went beyond how well they knew how to play in the same key and keep time together.

Finding that sort of chemistry is a once in a lifetime thing. And it can serve as a guide to help you chose band members — it’s not all about the chops. It has as much to do with how well you get along with whomever you’re considering as a future band mate. Does the person have similar goals to yours, and the ambition to reach those goals? That’s the main question your should be asking, but, of course, musical skill plays into the equation as well.

Go to local shows, lots and lots of local shows. Get out to the clubs and see who’s on the scene. Many of the best bands you see have members who play in other bands as well. Perhaps they might be interested in your project, but you have to get out of the house first and see what’s going on in your community.

Post free ads online. Craigslist is the most popular site for this sort of posting. Be very specific with what you’re looking for in the ad.

Take out a classified. We’re talking old-school classified here, the kind people read in the newspaper. Yes, people still scan the print Classifieds the same way they do online, especially when they’re extremely interested in finding a very specific thing, like a new band member or people to jam with. It may cost a few bucks, but even if only someone’s grandmother sees it, she may tell her musician grandson about it and it will be worth that small expenditure.

Put the word out on social networking sites. The more friends and followers you have the better. Encourage non-musician friends to share the info with those who know how to carry a tune and play in key.

Hang fliers at local coffeeshops, universities, churches — anywhere there’s a public bulletin board.

Go to school. That’s where the members of the bands mentioned above found each other — they were schoolyard chums. Even if you’re not in your teens or early twenties, you can still go to school, church or join a community group where you’ll find people with similar interests.

Attend open mics and jam sessions. This is perhaps the best way to find other musicians, many of whom are also looking to join bands. Go, participate and see if anyone else performing meets your mettle.

For those who are currently in a band they’re satisfied with, let us know: Where did you find your band mates?